Miscarriage

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Cabbages

We've been trying for a baby for about 6 months now. No one tells you that it will take a long time. Everyone scares you into believing that the moment you have unprotected sex you'll be pregnant. This may be the case but for most it isn't.

You think back to your friends who have babies who all said 'oh we weren't even really trying, it just happened' and you think were they really not trying or had it actually taken months or years and they just don't want anyone to know?


At the beginning of May I had a miscarriage and while I try to stay positive, you know sometimes, it's hard, really, really hard. Why doesn't anyone talk about this and tell it like it is? Wouldn't it just be easier if you put in an order at the cabbage patch?

2 comments :

  1. My heart goes out to you and Nick.

    You two are a beautiful couple, and deserve a family more than most.

    Thinking of you both. Also praying for your dream of an addition to the Bitar family becoming a reality soon.

    Take care.
    :)

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  2. The cabbage option does sound much easier. I am so sorry you had to go through that, it is of life's terrible happenings and it is just not fair.

    Sending you some big warm hugs xxx

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